I’m writing this as the sun is about to rise on the morning following my 50th birthday party. It’s 5:30am. My heart is full and my feet are tender from dancing all night. Supercharged with happy hormones – I’m too full of energy and emotion to sleep yet. Energy always seems infinite when it’s from […]

The life spirit and energy which contribute to the mastery of the creative process can never be fully engaged by a commitment to compromise. Robert Fritz In other words – There is no such thing as a commitment to compromise. The two are antinomic. I’m all for ‘ANDs’ but this time, the two can’t exist […]

How many times have I heard a client, friend, myself, my children say, “Oh but I don’t have the time.” (Not for a lover in particular of course!) I’ve been looking into this for many years now with much curiosity – in a bid to strengthen my position of integrity with myself. What I have […]

Don’t ASK whatever you do!Really! Don’t! If you have a preposterously outrageous idea (for you) or something that your soul is tugging, nudging or screaming at you to try out, for heaven’s sake don’t ask anyone what they think about it. Why? Because 99% of people don’t have a clue about your idea. Believe me. They […]

1. You CREATE your life (whatever the circumstances). No excuses.  I’ve been designing my life by this rule since age 11 when my parents packed us up and moved from New Zealand to Aussie (without consulting me of course!) It was ‘become master of my fate,’ or drown in my own tears. Drowning in my […]